eirian
they/he

BYF

if any of this fits in your personal DNI criteria then you NEED to block me and not engage with me or my posts on discourse. don't enter and bother people in a space filled with those you don't want interacting with you and expect them to not respond. this is not a DNI for me, it's just a list for folks to know my stances on issues.retweets/reblogs/follows =/= endorsements of all stances

I Support

  • free palestine

  • kink & sex positivity in addition to: sex worker, drag, kink, and polyamorous representation & inclusion at pride

  • good faith identification and nuanced understandings of attraction, orientations, gender, and relationships

  • ALL types of systems

  • self-diagnosis

  • the ocean gay flag (gay & lesbian solidarity, and a derivative of the gay bear flag design)

  • anti-abuse (i find contact labels to be vague and useless, and most paraphiles don't have attractions that can cause harm bc many common socially accepted kinks & fetishes are paraphilias)

  • abolition of prisons

  • SALS and YKINMK(ATO)/anti-harassment

I Do Not Support

  • telling people to die/kill themselves (idc if you claim it's a joke)

  • calling people freaks (freak has an inherent historical association with ableism, racism, homophobia, and transphobia)

  • zionism

  • any form of gatekeeping (includes sysmeds)

  • bad faith identification (attack helicopter, vixenamoric/todamoric, longsword lesbian/battleaxe bi, clovergender, nor/mal pronouns, etc.)

  • radical feminism, political lesbianism, and lesbian/feminist separatism

  • antitheism

  • kink critical rhetoric/anti-kink/kink shaming and anti-porn/anti-sex work

  • pro-contact/offending zoo/necro/pedophiles (and it should be a given that i am against predators of any kind)

  • beliefs that narcissistic abuse is real, it's called emotional abuse

  • sanism and the demonization of cluster B personality disorders

Other

  • i sometimes discuss mature topics like sexual health & safety, sex work, and creative works that contain sexual content, please do not follow or interact with those posts if you're under the age of 16

  • please DNF if you use the zeta (ΞΆ) symbol or display MAP, AAM, or similar terms/symbols in your display name or bio

  • i've reclaimed queer and fag as personal labels and i support the reclamation of slurs

  • non-specific leftist, too exhausted to dive down the rabbit hole of specific political alignments and that's one discourse i don't have the capacity to engage in